The neuroscience of self-esteem: 5 research-based tips for valuing ourselves
Although self-esteem is widely studied in the behavioral sciences, its neuroanatomical basis is still largely unknown. For example, reduced self-esteem has been associated with increased brain activity in regions of the anterior insula and dorsal part of the anterior cingulate cortex, the same regions that have been shown to be activated by experiences of social rejection and to be linked with self-discomfort.
These brain regions were observed by Naomi Eisenberg and colleagues, who hypothesized that a mechanism exists in the brain that they called ‘sociometer’, a mechanism that supposedly translates perceptions of rejection or acceptance by others into self-esteem. Their research showed that individuals may have different attitudes to social feedback, with more or less activity in the prefrontal cortex, an area generally associated with self-referential processes. The difference in the processing of social feedback could be related to the concept of internal or external locus of control.
Preliminary results from another study by Dartmouth College show, in fact, that lasting self-esteem correlates with a greater white matter connection between the frontal cortex and the ventral striatum, an area involved in the feeling of gratification and the so-called internal ‘locus of control’. We speak of an internal locus of control when a person ascribes power over events to themselves, as opposed to an external locus of control, that is, when one tends to delegate responsibility for what happens outside oneself.
In summary, we can say that, according to this research, self-esteem goes hand in hand with an increase in the volume of grey matter in the brain regions responsible for adaptive responses to events that generate Cos’è lo stress? Dal punto di vista clinico, lo stress è... More and an increase in white matter in the areas that connect self-referential processes with gratification. From a psychological point of view, these changes in the brain appear to be correlated with attributing the ability to influence events in our lives to ourselves.
There is also a risk here, however, and attributing capabilities to ourselves can backfire. It is necessary to learn the art of mediation between the ideal self, the image of us which we tend to attribute maximum ability to, and the actual self that we experience every day. The mediation process can lead us to find that intermediate point where we come closer to our aspirations, without falling into frustration, but instead realizing concrete results that will form a solid foundation for our self-evaluation.
With this in mind, Moffit and colleagues found that the concept of self-compassion, intended as focusing on kindness, compassion and understanding towards oneself, is more effective than simply focusing on one’s positive qualities, to improve, for example, dissatisfaction with one’s body.
Here, then, are 5 tips based on self-esteem research to apply to education:
- Practicing self-acceptance not in a passive or uncritical sense, but making gratitude for life the basis of my self-evaluation. If I realize that the mere fact that life is betting on me is of enormous value, this will support me in my self-evaluation.
- Set achievable goals, thus allowing the brain to acquire solid ability benchmarks, which can be assessed on a measurement scale.
- Nurturing memories through active reflection. In order to evaluate, the brain makes reference to memories, but these are not fixed, they can be revisited and reappraised to contemplate events from new points of view.
- Cultivate positive relationships in which we highlight each other’s skills and value in a supportive manner, without fear of criticism
- Helping others when possible is not only a socially useful action, but also a self-confirmation of our value as being able to give.